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TikTok/@pleasure_as_praxis & TikTok/When you want to be happier, dopamine is where it’s at. There’s the "dopamine dressing" trend, where you wear funky patterns to boost your mood, "dopamine decor" where you splash your house with color, and the viral “dopamine menu” trend that perks you up enough to be productive.While a zing of the well-known hormone always feels good, it’s said that oxytocin is what makes you feel really great. On TikTok, creators are talking about the importance of boosting your oxytocin, especially in the winter when it’s common to feel isolated or sad, and they’re proving it’s so much more than just a “love hormone.”According to Dr. Easton Gaines, a New York State clinical psychologist and founder of MindCare Psychology, you can think of oxytocin as the hormone of connection — the one that swells when you get a hug, make eye contact, or pet your dog. “It’s the chemistry behind belonging, trust, and that grounded feeling of being held — by another person or by life,” she tells Bustle.While dopamine is the spark of happiness that comes with novelty and excitement, she says oxytocin is more like the slow, sustainable anchor. “Dopamine revs us up while oxytocin roots us down,” she says. “Both matter, but only one helps us stay connected to ourselves, to each other, to what actually fulfills us.” Here’s what to know about oxytocin, including how to boost it.Why You Need More OxytocinOlga Pankova/Moment/Getty ImagesJust like the other hormones in your body, oxytocin can take a nosedive. “It’s highly responsive to how safe or connected we feel,” Gaines says. If your life is overwhelming, you’re doing too much in a day, or you’re experiencing conflict, you can expect your oxytocin levels to dip.It might feel like chronic stress, irritability, emotional disconnect, numbness, or burnout. A lack of oxytocin can also show up as a sense of isolation, loneliness, or feeling tired all the time. It also makes it tough to be vulnerable and touch-deprived. “These aren’t signs of personal weakness,” she says. “They’re signs your body is hungry for connection.”According to clinical psychologist Dr. Jenna Budreau-Roman, Psy.D., more oxytocin will regulate your stress, calm your heart rate, lower cortisol, and help you feel grounded and OK — and that’s why you should seek it out every day. “You don’t need to overhaul your life,” she tells Bustle. “Even tiny moments of warmth or connection can meaningfully shift your mood.”How To Boost OxytocinWestend61/Westend61/Getty ImagesJust like dopamine, which you can level-up with fun experiences — think upbeat workout classes, favorite foods, looking forward to a vacation, etc. — you can do little things to boost your oxytocin levels, too. Gaines recommends starting with some physical touch, like a hug, a hand hold, or a cuddle with your partner. It will tell your nervous system that you’re safe and secure, she says.Eye contact is another biggie. According to Budreau-Roman, a warm gaze is one of the oldest bonding behaviors we have. “That small moment of ‘I see you’ activates oxytocin and quiets the stress response,” she tells Bustle.It’s why she recommends scheduling eye contact into your day. “It sounds funny, but a lot of [people] benefit from intentionally practicing eye contact,” she says. It doesn’t have to be anything intense, like an hour-long staring contest. Just 20 to 30 seconds once or twice a day, maybe while you chat with a friend or catch up with a partner, can create a shift in your well-being.travelism/E+/Getty ImagesTo boost oxytocin on your own, you can watch something that makes you laugh, go for a walk, take a warm bath, hum a song, stretch or do yoga, pet your dog or cat, or give yourself a bear hug. Listening to fun music and dancing also helps it swell, as can mini acts of kindness for others.“Giving care and receiving care both activate the same bonding pathways,” Gaines says, so think about volunteering, reading up on a charity and making a donation,…

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